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Flirting
Yall….am i leading people on?????
Like i have this friend (or i guess ex friend now) who i got really close to recently and i really just thought of her as a good FRIEND but i asked her to hang out on Thursday and she sent me a text being like
“hey i really like you and like hanging out with you but i dont think we should continue this relationship because of our age gap like i know it’s just 3 years but it’s kinda bothering me. Sorry if i led you on”
And I’m just sitting here like….
GIRL WHAT RELATIONSHIP??????
Like i didnt even know she liked girls?????
And i cant tell if this came out of left field or if i was just oblivious the whole time?????
Like when we were alone i did notice that she would get really touchy with me but it was never like “inappropriate” or anything and i have friends who are like that so i just thought “oh shes just one of those types of people”
The worst part is that it isn’t even the first time something like this has happened
I was talking to one of my friends about this and she said “i mean you kinda have a flirty personality” LIKE WHAT THE HELL IS THAT SUPPOSED TO MEAN??????
Idek anymore
Also tmrw is my birthday so happy birthday to me i guess
Damn bro I kinda relate like it's not my fault I'm just so good at flirting but don't worry bro it's not your fault and maybe try to talk to her and explain the situation? Also happy birthday oh also happy Valentines day️ reply
She thought yall was in some sort of RELATIONSHIP?? Im seeing no issue with you but rather the fact that it took her so long to point it out, if anything you shouldve sussed that friend out because in her head she was having an ambiguously flirtatious relationship with a kid WAYYY younger than her 1 reply
UPDATE
So apparently she thought i was flirting with her the whole time because
1. When we were watching the spider verse movie and the song “mona Lisa” started playing i mentioned how i really liked the song and she said she did too so as a joke i said “lmao its our song” and she took it the wrong way because according to her “its a su...... 3 reply
I had a friend who told me I was leading him on 'cause I was nice to him all the time. Like HELLO?? Am I not supposed to be nice to my friends
Tbh, anything could be counted as "leading" someone on. If you're too nice to someone, if you get a little touchy feely around a person, etc. Like, why can't we just be platonic friends bro and still do th...... reply
Happy birthday!!!!
Also not your fault, until you and another person agree that you're in a relationship than its not a relationship
thats a them problem, not your fault your charisma stat is so high reply
Girl take pride in having unintentional rizz. But on a serious note, i dont think you are leading on? Maybe try putting boundaries in the beginning and say stuff like "im glad you are my FRIEND" smth reply
