Why can't man feel pain in sex two?

Like I don't understand if we woman have to literally Bleed and Tear apart our fucking vagina and feel uncomfortable AND feel like we have a sword Stabbing and cutting our Vagina when it's our first time why not man as well? Like let's be honest god definitely has favorites and it's obviously man because let's be fr if god was a woman WE would be the ones with Dicks rn but I mean don't get me wrong I still have my v card and I'm not a man so I could be wrong just my thoughts