Sorry, guys! During system maintenance, some functions like comment are unavailable.
I WHAT TO HAVE A CRUSH SO FUCKING BAD
Usually I'm not really bothered by the fact I can't feel romantic attraction (I'm aromantic) BUT it's just one of those nights where I'm honestly kinda annoyed rn because I want to know what a freaking crush is like also I'm fucking annoyed and low-key mad that I can't find anybody attractive like don't get me wrong i can see and understand if someone is good looking but i can't feel anything you know what I mean? Like uhhhhh idk how to explain it it's just so annoying seeing everyone talk about their crushes and saying how it makes them feel and how it makes life different and Motivates you to do much more stuff knowing damn wall I can't and never will feel that kinda feeling
As a fellow aromantic person, I would recommend choosing someone to be obsessed with. Act like everything they do is important to you and you may trick your mind into believing it, even if it isn't really a typical crush. 3 reply
Literally omg sameee like i see ppl pretty much the same, and it's so fucking sad like ppl feel affection or have crushes but no form of affection never even crosses my mind when i look at anyone, even w celebrities or whatnot like i will comment and pretend that i love them n write things like "omg i love him sm" etv but i never feel that, all wha...... reply
Same I wanna feel like going to school bc ur crush is there blushing when see them smile or kicking ur feet while texting them like I wanna experience that too lol reply
I totally feel you. I'm ace and gray aro. It's fine to sometimes long for romantic attraction and it is not strange at all. Especially with society and pop culture sending us all these messages that tells us that finding love or romance is the "happy ending" we should all search for. It sells the idea that romantic attraction and romantic love is ...... reply
THIS IS SO REALLL. Like its so bad at this point that its not even like just crushes i wanna feel its like everything. I wanna experience the heartbreak and everything too. Like Im so deprived of anything that comes with love that I just want to experience it once even if its bad like BRO FIND ME A GUY WHO I LOVE THEN BREAK UP WITH MEE. Going insan...... reply
i’m not aro but i can’t understand how the dynamic between gf and bf work irl. like it’s so strange to me even though i’ve dated. like do yall just act like friends then kiss sometimes?? i don’t gwt it reply
STOP I'VE BEEN FEELING LIKE THIS TOO LATELY. i just wanna have a silly little crush on someone and associate songs with them and shit but there's literally NO ONE crush worthy around me and the aroflux side of me isn't helping neither reply
