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Religious beliefs
Tomorrow ramadan fasting month starts n I'm gonna start fasting. My bf who's really religious keeps telling me to start fearing **Him**(God) n to tell u the truth, I'm not really religious. I follow my family's religion but I'm not so orthodox, i dun wear hij@b n i dun offer 5× prayer daily. I'm not a bad person, i just dun believe in God much. I dun think I've committed any grave sins, I've been living a simple life n i dun want to box myself in religious restrictions. Ik he's not wrong about his intentions, but I'm just not interested in it. Tbh, even my family doesn't bother me much about it. I'm a studious person n use my time to get the academic validation. He never listens to what I've to say. I dun think he even plans on leaving me bcoz even if i tell him to find someone who's religious instead, he just brushes over it, ignoring what I've said. It kinda stresses me out ngl. I even told him it's haram to date, so why bother dating me at all. He literally doesn't care what i say ong
No offense to religious people but one thing that irks me the most about them is that most of them always like to drag you into their religiousness like PLEASE DO YOUR OWN THING AND LET ME DO MINE
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(Hoping not to get canceled for this) 3 reply
{Verily, the hypocrites will be in the lowest depth (grade) of the Fire; no helper will you find for them.} [Al-Nisa 4:145]
{They swear by Allah that they are truly of you while they are not of you, but they are a people (hypocrites) who are afraid (that you may kill them)} [al-Tawbah 9:56]
{And when it is said to them: ‘Make not mischief on ...... 4 reply
It sounds like you don't really like him, how about talking with him properly about it (religious stuff)? Or even breaking up or taking a break 1 reply
Your boyfriend sounds toxic and controlling. Tell him he's a hypocrite for preaching others about religion while doing haram things himself. Have a good fight with him and break up because there is no point in dragging a relationship when you aren't happy in a relationship. Wishing the best for you
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Why are you dating him if he never listens to what you say? And why is he dating you since he is so religious and dating is haram?You are not a muslim if you dont really belive in god. And if you dont believe in god and dont want to be religious then why are you going to fast?
This is so confusing.. 2 reply
"I even told him it's haram to date, so why bother dating me at all. He literally doesn't care what i say ong" that's actually so crazy.
ANYWAYS YALL RAMADAN MUBARAK reply
Well, if God exists, I'm pretty sure they wouldn't mind if we humans didn't believe in them, they aren't narcissistic assholes, so why would they care about our approval? We are insignificant in comparison to them, so don't put too much pressure on yourself if you can't practice your religion seriously.. I mean it's just me, a Roman Catholic, who d...... reply
