It’s not really a gender thing tbh, but more of a “slow your roll there pal.” Some people aren’t ready to digest someone who loves/likes them when they don’t even love themselves nor love/like that same person. Love is as much of a strong 4 lettered word as hate. Sometimes it takes a LONG time for people to finally warm up to someone’s ...... reply
It can feel intimidating if someone likes you way more than you like them, even in platonic relationships. I say this as a woman who has scared people off by being too affectionate and clingy. Another possibility is that they have so low self-esteem that they, sadly, find it creepy that someone would like them that much. I say this from experience ...... reply
Cuz they don't own anyone anything for someone liking them
Just because you confessed doesn't mean you're entitled for anything more than a rejection reply
I don't think it's fair to relate if he's the only one who's enjoying it and not me. My therapist advised me to try to see if I really want the person and not just want to feel loved without loving back. reply
There’s a lot of possibilities:
- They don’t like the person (romantically or not)
- It’s too intense for them
- Not ready for a relationship
- They don’t like a “clingy” guy
And a more “toxic(?)” reason:
- it’s not a guy approved by other girls.
(Girls tend to like guys that are taken because it’s like proof that the guy has ...... reply
