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Yall i need a relationship advice
So ik this is mangago BUT still i just need to talk with someone. Sooo I was best friends with a girl the whole summer untill january bc then she started to act offputting to me. I kinda made some distance but still wanted to be friends. She doesnt matxh my energy but i still like her in some ways. We are class and seat mates but she doesnt go ro school like at all ( mostly going striking bc enviormental activist or goes on concerts) but yea. We have a distance and now ima have my 18th birthday whoch is like sweet 16 in my xountry but she told me she wont come bc itd be the best for us both We literally didnt talk this time, I started talking to her abt it but she was like geah we just drifted apart. Okay but like- Why wont she want to celebrate a huge part of my life.. I kind of get it but still.. Im hurt bc i rly valued her, bought her things, took her out and shit, introduced my friends. Idk what to do and how to react
I am gonna be honest with you. I think you two just drifted apart because how less you interacted with each other as time went on, happens all the time between friends and it hurts like shit but there is nothing much we can do about it. Learning how to let go is a must because trying to hold onto a relationship that is not meant to be will only hu...... 1 reply
The sad thing is she has the right to drift away no matter how much you value her and even if you didn't put any distance earlier. All you can do now is express how you're upset about the situation and give her more time to rethink like "i know you told me you won't come, but i still will be glad to see you, so if you happen to change your mind, do...... 1 reply
be glad i mean, at least you were able to find out she was that much of fake friend to the point where she didnt even come to a huge event in your life. thats how i would think about it anyway. friendships die out, it happens but you find better people later on, or they will find you later on - is what i always tell myself. i get you mans had cheri...... 2 reply
