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What makes you think you're a bad parent in the future?
What makes you think you'll be a bad parent in the future? I just wonder because the lyrics "I can be a good mother" are in my fyp, so I just want to share what I think because I will probably become a bad parent in the future because I am too perfect. I want my child to be perfect. I strive for perfection, but at the same time, I hate perfection. I also can't become a good parent because I don't want to grow up. I still want to be a kid (I'm 20 years old). I waste my 4 years of my life ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
I often think about this, i love kids and i love taking care of them, but what scares me is that im not emotionally stable enough and i might end up being an emotionally absent parent reply
Kids are something i hate but love at the same time. I don't really see me having one tbh because first... they are expensive and second..I'm too emotionally unstable to look after a whole new living being. But if I ever get one i don't think I'd be a bad parent..there's nothing such as bad parent in asian households. There're only bad children. 1 reply
By looking at myself, I have concluded that my child will also be high maintenance and I rather spend it on my own mental health than theirs in the future. I do not want to be in my parents shoes, peeps would have been on a world tour rn and a lot happier if they never had me lol.
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its prolly a dumb reason but i cant stand kids crying. like it boils my blood. i know i should feel bad because the kid prolly is sad or something, but it drives me crazy. like let me get the tape. i just could never see myself having a child ever. i just couldn't take care of one and honestly i dont want to. and i dont feel bad about it either bc ...... reply
Climate change. Humanity has a low chance to survive. To get a child because I think it's exciting only for them to have nothing to eat in some years after their birth is not responsible to me. reply
My parents and how i grew up,
The more i age the more im like my parents. Even if dont want to be like them. I try not to but it just naturally happens. Ig u cant stop DNA.
It sounds edgy but I will never ever let anyone go through the shits i did as a little girl. 2 reply
I actually had this discussion with my brother the other day. This sounds bad, but it's because of my cousin that I think I would become a bad Mom. When I was a kid my cousin dated a man who beat her son to death (toddler). No one in my family seemed to blame her, so as a kid, it became ingrained that I couldn't trust anyone. I fully blame her as a...... reply
I am emotionally immature. I lack awareness and I don't care to ask. I hate this part of me but I could never change. I am selfish and I get angry easily. I can never tend to my child, i will slap them when i get mad. I had rather never have kids because they will cry online saying how they hate me asking for attention and sympathy from others beca...... 1 reply
I grew up in a frustrated, no one listens, always ignored, always arguing, has favouritism, pressured, stressed, and a family with the worst attitudes a person could have in just one surname. I'm always scared for the future, many people said you'd grow up of what had built you, and I didn't have a good foundation. So I just decided to be lesbian l...... 1 reply
