Dont yaoi readers get tired of sex scenes

I’ve been reading yaoi for 9 years by now and frankly I’m dead tired of seeing two dudes fucking most of the story instead of actual romantic development. I honestly don’t have anything against sex scenes it’s just kind of frustrating when I think I’m diving into a good story and all of a sudden I’m jump scared with 3 consecutive chapters of a dick slapping into some dudes asshole and not having any actual progress in the story. Seeing as this is still present in a lot of recent popular yaoi I wonder if anyone else feels this way.
Of course I know there’s yaoi that isn’t like this but I’ve definitely feel like the majority of yaoi follows this format… and don’t tell me to “just read shounen ai” trust me, I tried