Gacha players, HOW?

I need some gacha professionals help bc ain't no way how do you guys manage. I just lost to hard pity like ALL 100 ROLLS and still didn't get the character I wanted and IT'S MY FIRST TIME EVER ROLLING IN THAT GAME like why do I have bad luck already I JUST STARTED all my monthly savings GONE
So yeah I lost all my motivation to play ngl so gacha players share some tips, how do you guys have to motivation to play regardless cuz honestly im so done