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marriage without parents
Do you guys ever think about the day you'll get married and realise that your parents probably won't attend? I can't help but feel bad everytime they do me something good and i realise how disappointed they'd be if i ever came out to them, if not angry and hostile. I'd probably end up succumbing to the pressure and end up marrying "normally" just for the sake of my father holding my hand and walking me down the aisle or my mother sharing tips and "grown up gossip" for parenthood. I know it won't end up well but I can't bear to be seen as the family castout, let alone the disowned member. Is this a shared fear?
Tbh growing up queer is definitely an interesting experience. Im in an asian immigrant house hold with conservative values, So I feel as if coming out isnt ever an option for me, so im balls deep in the closet. I often think about wedding ceremonies and if I’ll end up living the rest of my life forever in the closet. But i’ve come to accept the...... reply
