Rant about my friends with question at end

Disclaimer that this might not make sense cause I’m kinda just ranting so yeah

So I’ve been trying to plan a group birthday for me and two of my other friends (I’m April but we were studying for finals and the other two are June but we all were busy) and in general most of my friends are being sooo annoying god. I have a friend group of around 5-8 depending on who you include, but the number would be 5, excluding me for it. All my friends were pretty busy because they work on the weekends and that’s chill, but I asked them for their schedules constantly and they wouldn’t reply, just send pictures of memes and stuff. Then I would ask my friends what worked best for them and it was no weekdays so I was like cool, but they wouldn’t tell me what weekends worked, so I went through each weekend and made about 3 different plans with maybe 5 alternatives for each weekend cause I prefer it to happen in July (I do plan things normally and they do often do this but before they weren’t as busy so it was easy to say yeah it’s this and being this so we can do this and they’ll be like cool), and I finally reached that we could have a sleepover on Saturday after 5-7 that went into Sunday and those who went to church or had work could leave early if they needed. It hardly conflicted with anyone and I didn’t mind the plan, it was super annoying because no one was replying or giving me any info for it.

Well today two od my friends contacted me, acting like I didn’t outline the plan for them. They were like “let’s do this because why not” and I had to say “we can’t because, again, for the third time, we do not have this”, so I was a little annoyed at the time. Then my other friend hit me up and literally fucking asked “there’s a party ?” And I asked her if she was being serious and then said I wasn’t talking to her for the time being and I know it’s childish but I was just so fucking pissed because I went over this multiple times with you and others in a group chat that you are capable of reading and I was just so so annoyed. Then she said I can’t because for some reason it now it conflicts with her schedule but she was never clear with her schedule in the first place she’s just say “I’m free Saturday and Sunday” and when I would ask the specific date like what number she’d just say “Saturday and sunday” so I didn’t know she was referring to a different one and I’m so pissed I can’t talk to her right now or I’ll actually go off on her and then she’ll only respond with a kirby picture of him cutely running and I’ll actually go feral. Now I don’t even know if I want to have the joint party out of spite.

Long story short, I’m pissed at my friends for not working with me to plan a party, and now I’m not sure if I should have the party because I’m just annoyed at this point