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Am I a insta thot
So me and my bf have been Tg for 1yr now and he wanted me to private my account due to how much attention I get from guys. But I don’t pay attention to those guys and I just like posting. I don’t post myself in bikinis/ lingerie. I post myself when I feel cute, do a new hairstyle, my bf, friends and stuff I like. I made a lot of female friends that way and I want to make my account public but I don’t know if that’s weird if I do after him saying he wants me to private. I have restricted message requests comments and the only guy I follow is him. his acct is public because it’s sports account. Idk what to do since I get it bc his attention is the only one that matters to me.
If a guy wants to control what I do with my personal social media accounts and want to strip me off my basic human rights to express myself through my social media accounts, I won't be dating that person. reply
And if guys look at you outside, will he ask you to stay inside? What's next?
If you like doing it, then you should keep doing it. If you want to make it public, you should do it, and honestly he should have NO SAY in it. If he has a problem with you posting on social media, then that's his problem and he needs to work on that.
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I think you should share these thoughts with him. He is clearly feeling insecure about all the attention you are receiving. You said you aren't posting anything risky, so I don't think he has the "right" to ask you to private your account especially since his account is still public and he is the only male you follow. Try to get to the root of his ...... reply
If you don't want to make your account private then don't. It's not harming anyone. And it's not your fault, if you don't want to go private. As long as both of you are happy together you don't need to worry. Find something to reassure them or build trust, talk it out. Sorry, I'm not good with advice since I've never been in a relationship, but i h...... reply