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I am a bit lost
I am in my late twenties and I ve never been in a relationship because I was pretty busy with life I would say , now that i reached my career goals and started to finally notice the people who approach me to engage into something I feel so flustered , anxious and scared that I don't even agree to give them a chance to know them and I feel like garbage afterwards. So any tips to overcome this fear and stop feeling like a weirdo ?
Honestly, don't be scared to feel like a weirdo if you never got into a relationship. Getting into a relationship is a social construct, you don't have to be in one to feel worthy of something. Loving yourself is worth something.
As for me, I am dedicating my life to myself. I get to enjoy things I haven't done in a while. If I do want to get int...... reply
Honestly you just have to do the hard thing and face it.... if you want to, that is.
Everyone has a different journey with relationships, some do them easily, some don't. Some easily fall in love, some don't.
People have different priorities and it's okay to have taken time.
What is it that you are scared of? Because you don't know how to handle it...... reply
Hi there, similar situation here! Well…sorta…Came out of my bachelors degree with 0 relationship experience, not even so much as a crush on another person and felt like I could never be in a relationship with another person because of my inexperience. Somehow ended up with a boyfriend recently in my mid twenties and let me tell you, when you’...... reply
I recommend trying to be friends with people first with the thought of possible dating instead of just dating. You might try dating apps and talking/texting people from those. From my experience, a lot of it is just talking for a lot of people. It might help you get used to it this helped me when I felt this way a few years ago. I also recommend th...... reply
