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Blind dates are something popular in my culture and I'm fine with it , my problem is that every guy i am introduced to acts as if we're already meant to be from the first conversations , they would be thirsty for affectionate words when I don't even know them and when I tell them that I cannot feel something that deep for someone I met not long ago they get very disappointed. When I talk with my entourage about this they tell me that I should not be this cold and i have to reciprocate their feelings ( after like talking 2 times ) .... what is wrong with people? Or is it me ? Did the marriage market change ?

I am in my late twenties and I ve never been in a relationship because I was pretty busy with life I would say , now that i reached my career goals and started to finally notice the people who approach me to engage into something I feel so flustered , anxious and scared that I don't even agree to give them a chance to know them and I feel like garbage afterwards. So any tips to overcome this fear and stop feeling like a weirdo ?