am i the only one who finds it odd?

am i the only one who finds it weird that SOOOO many bls are written by women? like i'm a girl too and i enjoy bl but i think writing about it is a different story.... also i think calling yourself a fujoshi is actually so cringe. obsessing over gay sex is not a good thing y'all!!! i've seen guys online talking about how they also think it's odd that it's majority women who write bls and shit. i feel like it'll be more interesting if men wrote bls themselves to see a more realistic point of view. anyway let me know your take! btw this is just my opinion you can agree or disagree i don't really care