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How to break up?
Pleaseeeee!!! I need help. Basically, I started dating this guy a little less than 2 years now. We started off as friends and then it escalated. I love him but just not in the way he may feel about me. I wanna be friends still, but the spark or whatever you wanna call it (lust?) isn't there. I don't want to hurt his feelings (he is prone to getting sad), but I also don't want to continue lying to him and myself. So, how would one go about breaking up with someone but still wanting them in their life, but just as a friend? ┗( T﹏T )┛
As straightforwardly as possible. Be clear with your intentions. Don't be vague, it might give him hope. Give him the space he needs to get over you. It might take a while before you two could be friends again but it's better than completely cutting off the relationship, if that is what you want. Not hurting his feelings is damn near impossible, lo...... 1 reply
This might be a bit rough but... My advice is hurt him (tell him) as soon as possible, the faster the better... You'd hurt him sooner or later anyway, srry.
If you still want to have him in your life, my advice is after you broke up, don't contact AT ALL to give each other some time (my past relationships is 6-12 month of no contact at all), and i...... 1 reply
Ngl it’s very unlikely you can continue being their friend. They are the ones that have feelings for you and it gets messy when only one person has romantic feelings and the other has not. Unless he loves you so much that he’s willing to hold back his feelings for you in favor of still being in contact with you, it’s very unlikely. Realistica...... 1 reply
The same thing happened to me a couple of weeks ago and for me I found that I had to be completely honest or he wouldn't let me leave (￣∇￣") which turned into him being really mad and posting our breakup on his social media and calling me out my name so we couldn't exactly be friends 1 reply
I’ve been in the same situation !! and let me tell you it didn’t end nicely... he asked to still be friends and I said okay thinking MAYBE POSSIBLY we could be friends but... he was way too clingy after (it was like we didn’t even break up) and kinda stalker-ish too. The reason I felt the need to break up was because I didn’t feel that spar...... 1 reply
ah the same thing has happened to me except we didn’t go out for as long as two years ^^ we started off as good friends and it sort of went from there but i broke up with him because i didn’t really have any more romantic feelings towards him except he obviously still did. i think you should break up with him as soon as you’ve sorted out your...... 1 reply
