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How to break up?
Pleaseeeee!!! I need help. Basically, I started dating this guy a little less than 2 years now. We started off as friends and then it escalated. I love him but just not in the way he may feel about me. I wanna be friends still, but the spark or whatever you wanna call it (lust?) isn't there. I don't want to hurt his feelings (he is prone to getting sad), but I also don't want to continue lying to him and myself. So, how would one go about breaking up with someone but still wanting them in their life, but just as a friend? ┗( T﹏T )┛
As straightforwardly as possible. Be clear with your intentions. Don't be vague, it might give him hope. Give him the space he needs to get over you. It might take a while before you two could be friends again but it's better than completely cutting off the relationship, if that is what you want. Not hurting his feelings is damn near impossible, lo...... 1 reply
