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my fellow queers
Kind of Rant. Ive been coming to terms with the fact that I am lesbian, but the hardest part is owning it, my friends are accepting of the lqbtq community but theres always a weird vibe with them. Whenever we meet someone new, they will out me immediately to that person. I feel like having a breakdown at some point because I feel people just see my sexuality, and not me as a person. I just want to be normal, not in the sense that I want to be straight, I just want my sexuality to be normalized, why is it such a big deal?
seems like your friends are unknowingly making you feel bad. whatever their reasons may be, if you're not comfortable with it, then it's not okay that they keep doing this.
try talking to them and telling them you don't want yourself to be outed to every person you've just met. try explaining it from your point of view, hopefully they'll understan...... reply