What do you do after you argue with your friends?

I’m not sure if I really just argued with my friend or not but I was explaining some of arcane plot to my friend who didn’t understand and then my other friend started spamming pictures of viktor, I asked her to stop, she didn’t, I asked my friend to kick her for five minutes, she did, and within those five minutes she thanos snapped our mudae characters twice (mudae is a character collection game on discord and we’ve been at that server for a few years now [we’ve been friends for like more than a decade]). She then started getting upset in another chat (other chat was on instagram, she moved to discord [which has some other friends on there]) and said she was upset that I called myself the main character, but all I said was that I relate to powder before she becomes jinx because I have a bad habit of hitting my head with my hands like she does hitting it against walls and like scratching my skin off and it was kind of comforting to not see someone cry without the reactions I deem normal when I cry. I didn’t mean to seem egotistical by calling myself powder but my friend said I was Maddie (she hasn’t watched the full thing) and I didn’t want to be Maddie. She was also saying that the show was mid and that because I talk about it so much about it that I have contaminated how good it is with my conspiracies and all the info I get from tiktok (I don’t have tiktok) but the thing is I tend to obsess about things I like but this is nothing new and within 2 months-4 years I get over it mostly (except all for the game god I am never getting over that my love of that will inevitably follow me to my death)

I’m mostly annoyed at the mudae characters and I was upset so I said I’m leaving and then I left but I’m just confused and am unsure of how to process this. I think this was an argument but I’m not sure I don’t know if she is upset or not and I don’t really know what she is upset at or for

What do you do when you argue with your friends or what would you do in this situation? I’m just kinda confused I don’t really argue with my friends (is this an argument ??)