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wondering if you have a toxic family
Have you ever come to a point of conclusion where your family is toxic, I mean as kids we tend to love them with all heart and forgive them for every little mistake, but as I grew older I became very perceptive of their actions and insights on stuff, which were wrong, and I knew I was in a toxic family. For example, My brother blames every mistake HE DID on his family or me, or most of the time he blames God, and my parents who always choose what's "BEST" for me even though it's not what I wanted nor love.
My parents think it’s okay to say anything insensitive or rude to their children BECAUSE THEY ARE THE PARENTS, and when we get upset, angry or even sad, they say we are your parents you shouldn’t be upset with us.. if you are saying hurtful words of course we would not be happy about it.. and my mother, she always try to ruin my relationship wi...... 3 reply
Yep, between 14 and 16 I started really questioning the issues in our family. What I thought was 'normal' I realized was just abusive. I've since studied a lot on psychology and abuse, and would recommend this to anyone dealing with a toxic family. It can be extremely difficult for people to accept that their family members, the people society tell...... reply
I don't know if you can call them toxic but my relationship with my mother is clearly toxic and since my dad and my sister are by-stander...
My mother wants me to be someone I will never be, someone more like her and like my little sister I guess. So, she despises everything I do, she tells mean things about me to her sisters, she constantly harass...... 1 reply
My Dad thinks I know the answer to everything and makes me do the simplest things but there are times I really don't know what to do and if I say I don't know and I really don't he hits me back. I do also talk back to him and stuff so I'm not in the clear but still there are times when my mother just had to step in since it almost escalated to him ...... reply
My family is too much toxic that I don't know what to say about.
First time I noticed my family is different from others I was only 10, but thought each family has its own rules so it's ok.
Then for some years I thought my family is much strict than others.
When I was 12 or maybe 13 news of father's affairs bring storm in my life by both of them.
B...... 2 reply
When I was younger I caught my mom cheating on my father (I don't blame her ) and I didn't even know at that time what she was doing .so I went to my father and said: papa, I saw mom naked with a man. and he got angry and many bad things happened.after that my parents got divorced and
I stayed with father but then he started to hurt me since there...... 4 reply
I guess it's toxic in some ways... My mother had me young, so I guess she was irresponsible. My conception was a mistake and I guess she tried to have a miscarriage, but her sister (my aunt) reprimanded her. I never knew my father. I grew up with my aunt and her family. It's fine an all, just that there are times when we get in a fight, they take ...... reply
My mom is really racist even though I have an uncle on my dad's side who is black. He's not blood related but he's still my uncle. And she thinks it's ok to say extremely racist comments. When it was Martin Luther King day she called it "national n word day" and when I called her out for it she acted like it was ok because it was her opinion and sh...... 2 reply
dad-
not together with mom
always talks shit about my mother
always talks crap about his family
smokes
drinks every time I'm with him
always yells
has guns and swords (idk)
yells at me if I don't message him back (to the point I'm going to cry or do)
has racist friends
probably is a racist
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sister-
body shames me cause I'm chubby
bossy
anger ...... reply
