"im scared of being the weird type of person that fetishizes gay men"
Get off twitter/tumblr NOW!!!!!!!!!!! They are melting your brain with this shit.
Lmao and the ppl whining about yaoi readers "fetishizing gay men" are usually females who LARP(/"identify") as gay men, and nobody on earth is guiltier of "fetishizing gay men" than they are.
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As long as you don’t bother people in real life, like harassing gay/straight men and being weird towards them, then it’s fine to like yaoi. Just be respectful to real people and you should be fine :) reply
its a valid feeling to go thru but life is only once and very short. so if u like yaoi then please go for it. it's very kind that you are concerned for gay men and their feelings, as well. some BL is also lgbtq+ approved, so there's good eggs and bad eggs in yaoi, but even then please read what you'd like to read. reply