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any aro/ace in the chat?
I wanna know how did you guys KNOW? Like really know?
i know this is a common experience for many lgbtq+ people while on a self-discovery journey that they have a phase where they think they are aro/ace because theyre very confused about themselves. I just wanna know how and what made you completely sure you didnt want romantic/sexual attraction.
i have been in (very short) relationships and im extremely confused by myself cause i love the concept of a partner, but when i actually get to be with one (for context im a girl and ive dated two girls), idk if im self sabotaging or i genuinely cant tell the difference between romantic or platonic feelings. or because of societal pressure of 'you HAVE to be with someone' I'm not sure if im forcing myself to be with someone for the sake of being with someone. or do i have to wait for 'the one'.
Idk how to word this but I have trouble, expressing my love to someone or something, since I was younger, due to my past experience's, through my parents (I have never been in a relationship before, because of thus reason). They also have a really toxic relationship which made me doubt myself, because like what if I mistreat my partner? Without kno...... 1 reply
I would consider myself aroace but feelings get confusing and Ive given up taking a deep dive trying to figure out my sexual identity, you're probably cupidromantic or lithoromantic but you don't have to label yourself as one. Feelings get too complicated to be put into words, find something your comfortable with. reply
omg I wrote a response but I guess it didn’t upload (⊙…⊙ )
it was an accumulation of things I (25F) wasn’t interested in sex during highschool, casual sex in college wasn’t my thing, I thought I was a prude/relationship girlie/lover. I got into a relationships (boy + girl) no sexual interest. I watched Bojack Horseman and loved Todd. W...... 2 reply
