Please remember that you can withdraw consent at any time. You were raped. You don't have to fight you don't have to scream you just have to say you want to stop. I'm so sorry that happened to you. From experience I know it's tempting to deny it and try to excuse it because it's so hard to face it and admit you were raped. It's a very difficult thi...... reply
I'm an older person, but when I was younger I didn't even know that not getting married or having kids was an option, it's just kind of what people do, so I went with the flow. I felt like in my relationships I didn't really feel what I was supposed to, but more like my satisfaction came from the validation of having someone think I was special and...... 1 reply
INTJ, honestly being this personality type as a woman makes life difficult especially in certain professional settings. People see you as cold and think something is wrong with you, especially since I am really low on the "feeler" scale. I used to hide a lot of the traits but as I get older I just don't care as much anymore. https://www.16personali...... 4 reply
I think the importance of virginity is just a social construct to keep people (mostly women) in line. It's really not that big of a deal. More emphasis should be placed on doing the right thing for yourself and being emotionally and mentally readyto have sex and then how to do it safely. It's nothing of "value" and a person isn't less valuable or m...... 2 reply