fetishizing gay men (a follow up)

ok listen up...
i spoke wrong so i figure ill give you some background on who i am before i speak out about the misunderstanding..
im a gay male im also trans, and i do enjoy the mlm genre and adore the amazing writers who put their time and effort into making the webtoons,comics,manhwa, (etc) but what i meant to say earlier was, SOME fujoshis are annoying not all that message was directed towards the toxicity that they bring to the community. I wasnt trying to say Only the mlm community has the right to read this genre. i was simply trying to bring up the topic of these toxic fujoshis and how they are not welcomed if youre an unproblemic fujoshi then i applaud you. Abd i brought the wlw comunity up because they also get fetishized but what i really should have said was if your of any sexual orientation not just designated ones. with that part out of the way im also getting backlash for what said about the sex scenes , and damn lemme tell you guys boi do i enjoy a good sex scene and im not shaming anyone else who does cause bitch i would love to have a convo about yaoi with you....i was honestly not shaming anyone i was just mocking the fujoshi fangirls the ones that sa "uwu" and ship siblings. and i get that manhwa/yaoi are mostly depicted on the females uneducated pov of a gay relashionship and that manhwa/yaoi is a genre targeting women in general and that it is made for women.( same goes for yuri and otome) but all the people saying' if iyou have a problem with yaoi then get off." i dont have a problem with yaoi, yaoi helped me find out my gender identity and who i really am and im so greatful for that in all honesty i long for the kind of loving relationships these couples have.
having cleared this up i would just like to say im sorry for what i said and i dont expect this to change anyones opinion i just wanted to clear the dumb shit i said up.