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Is She Toxic? Should I drop her?
So I am thinking of dropping this person but I am afraid. My friends that I sit with are friends with her. If I drop her, won't I sit alone? Her name is M*K*Y*A. My experience with her isn't the best. She brags about how she had helped a guy cheat on his girlfriend. She is always in a relationship and that relationship always ends quickly. Yet, she teases my friends and me about how we are single and can't/don't want a boyfriend. She says the n word and her ex boyfriends said the n word. I told her that she shouldn't say it because only black people say it. But she argued with me and said that only non white people can. She always talks about herself and always brings up stuff like," omg did you see how Mrs.P asked if I was ok and if i was crying?" (We were talking about a movie we watched, not even about her) She likes to shove in our faces that she's bi and that she's latino. (She's not bi, she dated a girl once and they never met or even did anything with each other) She constantly puts herself into drama but acts like the victim. I was having a bad day and I didn't talk to her much that day. She went and texted about how I hated her and how I was being bitchy to one of our friends. She makes fun of girls who send nudes but she sent nudes once. She acts like it never happened and makes fun of girls who did. Should I drop her? Should I distance myself? What Should I Even Do?
whew chile she seems like a handful. i understand how hard it is to just straight up drop someone but shes a big no-go. do you know how your other friends feel about her? i mean if the rest of your group understands how toxic she is, dropping her as a group would be a lot easier. but if they dont want to do that, cutting off her yourself isnt a bad...... 3 reply
Girl she is so toxic I can’t even.....
U deserve better u sound like a great person one day you’ll find someone worth talking to.however for now umm I think u shud just leave her as a friend and never speak to her again. (=・ω・=) 2 reply
Honestly, I'm a pretty crazy person and if I were in a situation like that, I would be an even bigger bitch and make her drop me XD. But since you're shy and not acquantianced with as many people, I would just try to distance myself from her. From what you said, she would probably call you out if you did this, so I would recommend getting a hobby o...... reply
Girl/Bro drop/distance yourself from her. Find new friends or get aquatinted with other people if your group of friends drops you too. Ik its gonna be hard but its better than having to put up with a trashcan like her. Maybe before dropping her explain it to your ‘friends’ first but if they still stan that btch after, they def deserve to be dro...... reply
I think you should distance yourself from her. Like if she talks to you, answer her like normal but like don't hang out with her. You should just go as classmates or something similar. And if she create any more lies, you should take screenshots of conversations with her or her conversation with someone else to defend yourself and prove to your oth...... reply
You probably should, those are the type of people you avoid getting into drama with. Be careful about how you dump her though, make sure that the way you do it makes her unable to to lash back at you. She'll probably spread rumors about you or do something to you so look out for yourself. reply
I have an encounter a little less extremes than this so I guess I can relate and I’ll say this, you have to drop here, sooner or later you’ll get fed up or she’ll drop you. She won’t change for better any time soon. If she ever decides to talk about how rude you are being to her to people, you should tell those people personally and let the...... reply
Drop her! If those people were really your friends they'll stay friends with you and they're probably thinking the same thing and don't drop her because no one is dropping her/they think the same things you're thinking. reply
Block her, you don’t need to explain yourself. Just say you don’t want to be her friend no more, what’s the big deal it not like you have to hang out with her. If she talks shit or try’s to expose you, expose her and all the racist things she say and do. 4 reply