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How do you handle people talking behind you’re back?
Recently, I had this one group of friends talk about me behind my back in a negative way.
The crazy part is, I have barely or not even interacted with any of them. The only time I have with one, she gave me extreme attitude like she was better than me. (PS her friend told me what she said, as we are really close) Most of them would be two face and act nice.
However, the group is known for being judgemental and very prideful because they think they are smarter than everyone else.
I know I shouldn’t get personal with this, but I just can’t help it. I’m going to have to interact with these individuals until I graduate.
Is there any tips on how you, yourself, normally brush these gossips off? Like as in, not hold a grudge on them to the point where you don’t actually start a fight/drama?
(Repost because my grammar sucked on the first one)
As someone who has experienced something similar, I just did not give a fuck. I'm sorry because I could not explain it any better but to brush these things off you have to start being indifferent and not caring about what they have to say first. What other people have to say about us does not matter, like at all genuinely. How to not care? Vent/tal...... reply
This has happened a few times to me and you know what I did? I just continued on with my days. The best revenge is living a good life, so go do that. These people are not worth spending time thinking about them trust me reply
As someone who has been hated a lot for being too frank with my choice of words, all i can say is that you dont reciprocate their hate. From the looks of it, they dont seem like the crowd you need to invest your energy to care about or please. And that a majority of people seem to not like them as well.
I get how it must've felt like, being hated...... reply
You see, the thing is, when somebody talks about you behind your back, you usually don’t know about it… that’s why it’s called “talking behind your back”. So to answer your question, I don’t handle anything cause I don’t know if people are talking about me behind my back and I honestly don’t care. reply
just ignore them. this type of people, the more they get attention, the more they act like this. if u confront them they become aggressive and make up things about u to make u look bad. the more u get bothered by it, the more they will do it. just think of them as cockroaches. reply
It'll most likely not stop anytime soon till they figure out that what they are doing is wrong and nasty. People will find anything to judge someone on and you cant do much, confronting can be a 50/50. Either they play dumb or they can be a good person and own up. Which will most likely not happen since they are well known for being back talkers. I...... reply
Just remember. If they did it once, they'll do it again.
I experienced this situation for more than 70% of my life on earth. But I couldn't ignore them, bacause, not only thery were my classmates, they also lived in the same neighborhood. Every other neighborhood kids also sided with them. So I cut them all from my life (they were still physicall...... reply
