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Question for my girls out here...
Like I'm a girl myself but I have never been sexually attracted to any person whatever the gender that I felt in love with So I'm wondering do girls really get aroused Just like boys do ??? I'm not asexual for sure ,I want to do it. But idk I just don't feel like doing that kind of thing with other people No matter how much love I have for them ( like ,I love you and stuff but why are you touching me below the belt I don't want to kiss your lips, let's just hold hands and hug ╥﹏╥) something like that, is normal right ?
I mean yes it's normal to want to hold hands and hug the person you like but not going beyond that because you dont like it may be an indicator for being asexual. I don't understand if u want to do it why do u hate the thought of actually doing it. Can u expand more on it? 1 reply
You're asexual and that's normal, even if you want to do it but if you can't actually do it physically then you're asexual, desires and having it is different. That falls under the umbrella btw but screw the labels at the end of the day, what ur feeling is valid. reply
asexual is a vast concept and it varies but yes, holding hands and hug is enough intimacy. celibacy would befitting for your situation too, like a choice and vow not to involve in any sexual activities. so on and so forth, your comfort wit how you handle intimacy is your priority. reply
Asexual doesnt mean youre arromatic as well babss, you can love and experience romantic attraction and not feel any sexual attraction
And yes, girls do experience arousal just like boys do. I will however say that arousal and attraction are two different things tho, there's people who can get aroused, like and enjoy sex but don't rlly feel sexual ...... reply