Gay bars are NOT exactly like how they are in BLs

Went to my fav gay bar again, only thing good abt this bar is the drag queens but wym I can't find a handsome six pack abs man that's around my age, or a very beautiful twink who almost passes as an Idol but instead there's bunch of creepy yt foreigners who's like 30+ that obv has a fetish for Asians... It is a bar yes so adults but why can't I find guys atleast below age 25. These hoes in BLs find dudes that always around their age like 21-23 wym few of these bitches has a wife at home. Like don't get me wrong there are good gays here but they're just often here for sex-partner relationship.