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Complicated feelings about men as a girl
Ik this is relatable to a certain degree. I have always had complicated feelings about men, as friends, as a partner, just as a person. It’s fear, disgust, disappointment. Ik not all men r bad. But I meet bad men all the time and it just gets harder and harder to trust them. I also think men mature much later in their 20s compared to women. I have a lot of both male and female friends and this is just my opinion but I have heard a lot of men say it too. Even a close family member. I rly wanna have a close male friend or even a boyfriend but these fears make me so uncomfortable and it’s such a big hurdle for me. And I don’t wanna say the wrong thing to them and hurt them so I just ended up keeping my distance. For context, this is the reason I have struggled to figure out if I’m just gay or I’m bisexual. I do find men attractive regardless so I think im bi in that matter.
Don't worry, it's not your fault. I totally relate to you. All the good men are in fiction. I suggest just wait for the right person, get to know them better before you actually get closer. I've learned this the hard way. Most men I've met are performative. You won't know what's on their mind/ wtv their motive was.
Don't place too much expectatio...... reply
From my experience, I am pansexual but I lean more to a specific gender each time and that's females, dw hon bc males scare me DEEPLY, from being abused, sa'd, and honestly been targeted by 18 and above when i was 15 including one of my cousins, there is one thing I've learned. . .
Even though you want to trust men as in a whole don't, I will say...... reply
