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Second-hand embarassment
What do you do when you did or said something and then you feel second-hand embarassment? How do you make that feeling of shame go? Same question when you feel guilt, how do you make that feeling go away?
I just sit there hoping for the feeling to go away, and probably accept my fate, on that note STOP DOING EMBARRASSING SHIT THAT MAKES ME FEEL EMBARRASSED TOO reply
I feel guilt a lot, for almost anything..., my family or anyone will trash talk me or abuse me, but if I say something to them (even online), I end up feeling guilty, I dislike this about me a lot, I have learnt to hide it but yeah its bad. To not feel that way I try to give logic to my actions, that helps a little.
I don't feel much second hand e...... reply
ig for both i gotta let myself feel it, write about it maybe, and eventually it'll phase out on its own;; nothing i really do to make it go away, and there are too many embarrassing/guilty things in my life to get stuck on any one of them;; reply
i try not to let the thought linger too much, in reality most embarrassing moments are only considered embarrassing to you because we tend to overthink! So with this thought in mind, it lets me get over things really fast. reply
