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I've a lover I love very much. But I believe the things we want from each other is totally different. I want someone who is happy/ eager to text me , call me, ask me how my day was. But it's always the opposite. I am happy to ask him how his day was, how he is feeling but he doesn't think of me even a single second on his day. I am always the one to reach out. If he wanted to be with me , if he actually loved me, he would've asked. Asked how I was doing, how my day was. I am just tired of doing everything for him. I cook food for him, help him in his assignments, listen to his problems a. Please be true with me. Is he only with me because there is something to gain? I'm just tired of asking him to prioritize me in his daily schedule. I mean if he wanted to, he would have. I don't wanna be this gullible, please just say something. I don't care if it's mean, just say something so that I can leave his ass alone.
Girl, if you don't leave this manchild... Yes if he wanted to, he WOULD HAVE! It's not that hard to take some time off his daily schedule to spend with you. Not that hard to actually live like an responsible ADULT (I assume you both are adults), he's treating you like your his mom and that he's a child... Leave him!! You're NOT HIS MAID! NOT HIS MO...... 1 reply
Hello, mentally ill man who struggles with relationships here to talk some bullshit. If I were to be very, very generous with so little information given I can easily imagine how this guy is not intentionally hurting you. Maybe selfishness and keeping his routine to himself is just a habit forged by being single before meeting you. Maybe his family...... 1 reply
Honestly, you’re probably going to end up being better off leaving. I’d try making him actually sit down for a long and prolly stressful conversation and talk about it with you, because it could just be that he needs to get shocked into getting his act together.
But if he keeps doing it after that (and he probably will!), then you’re wasting...... 1 reply
Girl you already know the damn answer, get another dude; And learn to avoid telltale signs, which would be whatever you observed about your boyfriend. Not to say that you should automatically stereotype anyone who has any similarity at all to him, but just keep an eye out. 1 reply
Leave him gurr If he wanted to he would but from what I’m hearing it seems he really doesn’t gaf and you deserve more than that esp if your doing all these acts of love for him meanwhile he’s giving nothing in return. Love should be mutual, and both parties need to put their all in it otherwise it’s just a mess of a relationship where one p...... 1 reply
