This is for boys/men or just anyone

I've a lover I love very much. But I believe the things we want from each other is totally different. I want someone who is happy/ eager to text me , call me, ask me how my day was. But it's always the opposite. I am happy to ask him how his day was, how he is feeling but he doesn't think of me even a single second on his day. I am always the one to reach out. If he wanted to be with me , if he actually loved me, he would've asked. Asked how I was doing, how my day was. I am just tired of doing everything for him. I cook food for him, help him in his assignments, listen to his problems a. Please be true with me. Is he only with me because there is something to gain? I'm just tired of asking him to prioritize me in his daily schedule. I mean if he wanted to, he would have. I don't wanna be this gullible, please just say something. I don't care if it's mean, just say something so that I can leave his ass alone.