Rape is so normalize it's scary

This isn't a debate, I js need to let this out of my system, it's just as the title says
And I'm not only talking about how rape is now perceived by some people as this thing that "just happens", and you can look pass through that, that's one thing
The thing that bothers me more is the fact that people sympathize w rapists when they have a remotely sad little backstory/childhood
(in the case of fictional depiction, like in mangas/hwas/huas)
It is necessary to first establish that rape is not a behavioral or mental disorder, but a criminal offense. Although some rapists may have a psychological disorder, there is no such disorder that compels people to rape.
You can feel bad all you want about what has happened, and or continues to happen in their life, but to say that they deserve a happy ending, and a happy life where they forget their past, after what they did???????? That's crazy work
Rape is so normalize people don't understand the amount of damage it does to a person when it actually happens, or even when it's close to it happening
You wanna know who doesn't get to live a happy life forgetting what just happens? The victim.
Crazy how people sympathize more with rapists characters, saying that they're misunderstood, and that you should feel bad for him, more than the actual victim.