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what would you do
how would u guys act when ur friends talk about their hangouts (where y were not invited( right in front of u for a long time. like it’s not just a “oh u remember when-“ i’m talking about like at least 30mins
all i did was poke around my phone but i still felt like shit
the reason i’m not invited to these hangouts btw is cos im the only one who doesn’t smoke or drink a lot
Nah mate wtf. I have friends who don’t drink or smoke at all for religious reasons and they are still invited to ALL of our hangouts even to pres and house parties just to socialise. I def think you should bring it up to ur friends n open up and if they still are being that way then welps, time for new friends! reply
just because you don't drink/smoke isn't a valid reason for not inviting you so please don't think that way!! friends should value your company with or without any of it.
it's understandable, I'd also feel really horrible sitting through that. if this happens regularly, you could butt into their post-hangout talks and ask to be invited next time. t...... reply
They are leaving u out on purpose imo. No active effort to even involve you in the conversation is crazy, it also tells you the bitter truth of what you mean to them, stand up!! reply
You could also ask yourself from what they are sharing about those hangouts : would you want to be there ? (I mean, probably once but who knows?) in a way, talking about their hangouts is a way to invite you in their hangouts in imagination, at least. Does it , hearing from them, make you feel like it would be '' nice '' to be part of it physicall...... reply
They’re assholes get new friends I don’t drink nor smoke nit cause I’m religious but simply because I don’t want to yet my friends still invites me to hangouts and parties where they get wasted and drunk but will always find a way to include all the non drinkers/smokers. reply
Been there, at first I would ask why they didnt invite me, but 30 min is way too long, I’d suggest changing the topic of just leave lmao, if they are doing that on purpose to make you unconfortable leave them, those are not your friends, mine invite me to drinking hangouts even if they know I dont drink and dont talk in detail about events where ...... reply
*trigger warning I hate them and will use strong language**
WITH FRIENDS LIKE THESE WHO NEEDS ENEMIES. FUCK THEM HONESTLY IF THEY CANT RESPECT THAT YOU DONT WANNA SHOVE SHIT IN YOUR BODY LIKE THEY DO THEN TOSS THEM TO THE CURB. ALSO THEY ARE SO INSENSITIVE TO TALK RIGHT INFRONT OF YOU. SORRY?!?!?! IF I WAS IN YOUR SITUATION THE POL...... reply
