Can cheaters change?

Maybe, but i dont believe they change for the same person. If they cheated and got forgiven then they'll cheat again at some point   reply

Partners? Yes   3 reply

I think they can, but the most important thing is they have to want to change and they need to communicate to you what exactly they are going to do to ensure it does not happen again. "Sorry" does not cut it. Personally I would want them to go to therapy, I might go with them and make it a couples thing, to find out exactly why they feel the need t......   reply

Unlikely. Personally, I will never return to a cheater, even if they change. I have too much self-respect for that.   reply

From my experience, No. Cuz I forgave that motherfuxker and the next thing you know HES TEXTING TO A GIRL THEY SHOULD MEET UP AT A MOTEL. THE SAME GIRL HE CHEATED ON ME FOR. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. So from now on if they cheated on me, you already lost my trust. so you better GET THE FUCK OUT MY SIGHT   1 reply

Fuck no!   reply

it depends if they own up to it themselves but usually if its when u catch them cheating then they start acting pitiable then no they will never change. shows they only feel guilty abt being caught rather than actually cheating and thats a mindset they will never get rid of   reply

Im non-monogamous but cheating can still happen. For me its about my boundaries. If they cross a line and if I forgave them, am I breaking a promise to myself? Am i letting myself down? Decide, not based on your feelings for them but by your feelings for yourself.   reply