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is it normal?
does anyone's mom watches them sleeping for more than 5 minutes? i'm very paranoiac person so everytime she does that i can feel it she keep starring at me and i don't understand why she's doing this. i used to close the door few years ago but lately i started to feel claustrophobic and kept the door open. even though when i need privacy and close the door,i can sense my mom listening and trying to figure out what i am doing. i caught her more than one time she trying to see me from key hole. because of that i can't call my friends when i'm at home because she gonna tell her relatives or my brother idrk.(i don't really have any secretive things even if i want to though) she keep taking pictures of me when i'm not looking or napping then send it to her friends. i understand if i were still toddler but i'm adult and it's making me very uncomfortable since teenager years. i don't usually take pictures of myself and avoid appearing in pictures so maybe that's why but i'd be more okay with it if she send it to my dad or brother not her friends that i don't know. she keeps barging in when i'm showering too. (YES SHE KNOWS I'M SHOWERING) i tried to talk about this calmy YEARS ago but since she kept doing it i can't control my anger and keep yelling at her. i feel deeply humiliated when she does all kind of things i don't know if this sounds logical. i'm very detached and distant person since childhood so maybe it's strange to me but plz confirm that i'm not crazy lmfao. if ''I'' have problem instead of talking to ME she keep telling my brother or friends that has nothing to do with. i'm far from home right now but i feel really exhausted when this shit keeps happening everyday when i got back home.
Normal, no, but not uncommon. I think most Asian cultures are like that, but I can’t speak for everyone else. My Korean aunt is the same way as your mom, and it drives me crazy when I stay at her house She walks into the room when I’m showering and changing, comes in my room almost every hour and even when I’m sleeping, and sending pictures ...... 1 reply
My mom randomly comes into my room just to see what I am doing. This is totally an asian mom thing lol If I have to do something private, I will just lock my room for the time being.
But the shower thing sounds too much. Maybe try to talk to her that this feels too invasive and uncomfortable. Gently explain it to her. Hopefully she will understand ...... reply
She’s literally breaking ur boundaries that she knows u have ur 100% in the right and u have the right to assert them more strongly AND be upset because she’s ignoring them. reply
No, that's literally creepy. No mother would do that if she's sane. Why don't you try to talk to her again? Say that you're uncomfortable with it, try asking her what's the purpose of that and try telling her that, family business is within family. Let's not let other people in our problem. reply
this sound like its straight out of a psychological horror movie and no its not normal your mother should know boundary sincw you yourself is an adults and what she's doing is just outright creepy af. reply
ooo i had the problem of my parents peeking into my room through the door gap or keyhole! my dad even broke my door so i couldn't lock it anymore. i had to resort to slipping a blanket in the door gap so they can't peek. after we moved out to a new home they can't peek on me anymore but they still seized my bedroom key(￣∇￣") 1 reply
Definitely creepy, have you tried closing the door and opening the window instead, I'm not claustrophobic so i'm not sure if opening the window would help with that issue. But definitely put something inside the keyhole so people cannot look through it anymore/or if you're able to lock it keep the key inside (ofc only if opening the window helps wi...... 1 reply
wtf you are not paranoid your mother is creepy, i don't even know what to say. Try moving out. It's understandable why you feel so tired cause you are always worried about what your mother might do next. reply
