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To the Queer people
To every queer people out there,
> Have you ever told your parents or anyone around you that you're gay or lesbian or bi? If yes how did they react about it?
> Have you ever told about the people around you like your family member and friends that you read yaoi? Especially if you're a muslim or majority of people around you are conservative.
I am really curious cause as a muslim who live on a muslim majority country,I'd never be able to tell anyone around me that i read yaoi or that i am bisexual.
1. didnt tell parents. but most of my friends know. its illegal to be gay here since its a muslim country. i am not muslim myself but since im minority, the same law will apply. and my parents will marry me off if they know im bi. so coming out is out of question.
2. my sister knows i read yaoi. my parents dont. ive found out that a lot of my fri...... 1 reply
1. Honestly no, but i think my brother knows that i like girls cuz he knows I read yuri, and we even watched a few gay movies together. He's chill with it. My parents don't know and I don't really plan on telling them.
2. Well there was a girl in my class who was a thai bl drama addict and she knew that i atleast know what "bl" is, other than that...... reply
1. First person I told was one of my guy friends because I was absolutely terrified of telling a girl I’m a lesbian and having her think I’m creepy or something. I didn’t tell my parents, I got basically outed to them because my mom snooped through my diary. My parents are very conservative. She didn’t take it well at all, but has since com...... 1 reply
1. Never told my parents, but I've told my brother and friends. Not that I told them, they just kind of knew from my mannerisms and how I carried myself. Pretty sure my family knows I'm gay, they're just waiting for me to say it.
2. Me and my friends read yaoi, my parents don't know but they do know that I read mangas. reply
I’m ace. My friends and family know, and they’re chill about it. My parents didn’t know what it was at first, and they made a couple upsetting comments in the past. but they’re more understanding now. They’ve always had queer friends. Same with my brother. Two of his closest friends are queer, and most of my friends are too.
They also kn...... reply
Wait we're the same person because my family's muslim too and I'm bi, well idk if i'm specifically bi, i know that I'm not straight. I don't know if I'd say im still muslim, but i'm still heavily surrounded by muslims and my entire culture is mostly muslim. My family's conservative, but my out of my 6 sisters 3 of us are yaoi fiends and one is full...... reply
i came out to my close family a few years ago. they all accepted me because theyre chill like that. apparently my grandma figured out that i was a rug muncher way before ever knew. saw the signs in me because she worked with young kids for years. she's fine with it but ill never "officially" come out to most of that side of the family. they're all ...... reply
1.My sis knows I'm cupioromantic and bi, probably my mom wouldn't care if I was bi, dad doesn't know cause I never really show any romantic interest with anyone
2. My cousin was the one who introduced Yaoi to my older sis and my sis introduced me to yaoi
She introduced me to yaoi when I used to be disgusted with gay people, fun fact, I was homoph...... 1 reply
Oh hahhahaha-
Aro ace here~ Muslim, Filipino, and living in the states! My brother knows im a fujoshi lol and my parents are confusion they dont even know or understand. I did tell them about my seggsual orientation and they dismissed it, thinking it was a phase (￣∇￣"), tbf its much easier to dismiss asexual like that in comparison to gay/l...... reply
my close friends know im a yaoi fiend, and i already told my best friend that i'm bi (specifically omnisexual but there's no need for details) and aromantic. she's muslim too but ig she doesn't really care cus she knows im not into her like that (she checks all my types though LOL)
and no im not ever gonna tell my family. i want death but not like...... reply
