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<TLDR I’m think I’m asexual but I think my sex drive is too high for that to be the case pls offer possible ideas> So basically the reason I read Yaoi/yuri is bc I think that like actual genitalia is gross like I’m talking it makes me nauseous (including my own) so I was thinking that I was just asexual yk but like well I’m on here for a reason the only “private part” I can stand looking at is tits (which I love) like dicks coochies booty holes are gross but boobs male and female are chill and idk if I’m just weird or what but like input would be nice (extra info I’m female pansexual and have genetic hormone problems so I’m like super ‘alert’ oh and I’m obviously a virgin)
Asexuality is always either
A) insecurity
B) hormonal issues
C) trauma
(or a combination of these)
It's not an inherent sexuality, at its core it's always just a symptom of some larger issue. Get well soon. 3 reply
what really determines whether you're asexual or not (or somewhere along the ace-spectrum) is if you actually feel sexual attraction so if you're really unsure you should consider if this affects your attraction to real people (i.e. if you want to have se with someone out of genuine desire for them specifically or just because you're horny)
also if...... 1 reply
one thing about the asexual experience, which is a generalized statement, is that a lot of us read, and a lot of our preferences for books are kind of freaky. (this is a false clause with no direct connection to the two concepts.)
what people have already said, that our sexuality and romanticism can be different from our 'favorites.' it's like an a...... reply
