age gap 18 and 22 yay or nay

Nay. I dated older, and now I look back and realize my inexperience got taken advantage of. 4 years isn't crazy big of an age gap, but the experience gap between 18 yo and 22 yo is enormous. It's hard to imagine why the 22-yo is not shutting this down. (Stepping back now is different from shutting it down from the get-go.) When I got older, I real......   reply

Why is it so hard to understand that when you’re 18 you’re still a teenager and just because it’s considered legal by law doesn’t make it ok. Yall r some freaks for thinking a 22 year old is fine for dating someone who is still a child. 18 is not as old as you think it is. Maturity gap is huge too, and being freshly considered an adult, man......   reply

You are both young adults and its normal to date within that age range. But its important to have Your boundaries set and he respects it, dont let him do something youre not ready . Is it your first relationship? I think my first relationship was the same age gap lol but we were college peers   reply

I'm actually in the same predicament, but he lied to me about his age when we first met (said he was my age) but he's actually about to be 19 in a few days. I'm still not sure if I can be with him cause im 22 and I feel like it's a large gap but I also really like him. The lying really threw me off cause why tf would you lie but I miss him and im l......   2 reply

no... a lot changes in those years putting the 2 at very different points in their lives which gives an implicit power imbalance, & i firmly live by the belief that if 18 is the lowest somebody over 20 will go, then the only thing stopping them from going lower is the law   reply