Is kinkshaming that deep??

I came across some tiktokers idk who were one of those "pro fiction" or whatever people talking about "thought crimes" not being crimes and they were also really serious about kinkshaming being like some kind of super offensive, discriminating thing to do
but like I dont think its that deep? Is it that bad?

Like okay u get off to piss and shit thats kinda gross but i guess ur not hurting anyone but im judging you