"x bl is meant to be disturbing"

I think as readers we have lost the ability to actually use our brains. Most of these bls that are considered dark romances/horror aren't disturbing or even scary. They're just edgy and violent, usually when I read a well written disturbing story it makes me think, maybe about my own biases or just give me different perspective on something usually not said out loud due to backlash but i doubt these bl authors intended to use topic such a rape, incest and CSA to give out any kind of message that might make the readers uncomfortable but actually think for more than two seconds. All i see is the authors barely disguised rape kink.