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'friends'? somebody help a gal out
okay, so ive been very very burnt out for the past weeks - meaning ive not really contacted my friends that much. they went out and i told them i couldn't make it because i had some sort of thing to do.
well yesterday they were sending like voice notes on our gc talking about how people who use others for convenience are weird and how they're not real friends - i have a feeling they're talking about me lol but i genuinely have not been able to even leave my room (barely) for the past weeks.
(p.s i've told them ive been feeling like this, they do not give one fuck!!! no one even replied to me when i said so).
also, they're leaving short replies etc idk am i the issue here? genuinely not fussed just confused.
they def 100% have another gc w/o you. trust me those ppl aren't your real friends, real actual friends NEVER talk shit abt e/o or become passive aggressive, esp when you've told them about your own health. my advice is to leave them for better ppl if possible but if you still want them in your space, distance yourself to just "casual acquaintances...... 1 reply
NTA (not the asshole) as someone in a friend group of 7 that have known eachother for 10years I can tell you when I go through periods like this on one is putting me down. They are telling me to feel better and if they can do anything and vice versa when they are down.
Friendship is a give and take that's true but they are being nasty 1 reply
They're toxic, if they keep singling u out then better get out of their circle before they spread their viruses to u. They cannot even understand their friends struggles yuck 1 reply
That is soo shady im sorry you have to deal with that. People who are passive aggressive genuinely get on my nerves. Do you have a friend that you trust the most between them? If so I'd say talk to them about how you're feeling, that's my best advice, if theyre still acting shady after that then I'd call them out on it bc dont just them treat you t...... 1 reply
