Let me rephrase my question

Cus I think y'all misunderstood, my question was meant for people who loves rape a lot and people who would ship themselves with problematic characters. I guess "pro shipping" Is what you'd call it but yumeshipping? Idk but self shipper with such characters like sangwoo, Caesar and Jaekyung. You know problematic characters, they desire them.

Also that question was completely unrelated to my research which how toxic Manhwa romanticisation affects society. Since these people are brainwashed basically to think red flag men are "it".

Obviously if they'd go through it they wouldn't want it, but asking why are these people genuinely romanticizing abuse? Like I don't understand why simp for such characters who'd treat their s/o bad. " A man like him" Which hello no? I've seen so many tiktok girlies do this. How they "love black tops" .