how tf do you make friends in your 20's

HOw do you guys actually make friends once you're out of school? i’m trying to expand my circle a bit more for.. reasons :/ and I just realized this is way harder than high school. IN school, you're just "there." now? I feel like I'm doing a job interview just to get a drink with someone

im trying to befriend this quiet girl at work I noticed we have the same interests she stands out in a way cuz she's always alone idk i feel kind of bad like im interrogating her she only gives one word answers

then there are the loud social people who are all buddy-buddy and joke with you in the office, but they're actually pretty distant. they already have their own circles and no one is letting new people in. TT__TT


theres someone who I talk with daily just a surface level kind of friendship but um just found out (last Thurs) they were racist and anti trans soo..

realizing it’s actually this hard is a trip lol.
how tf do u make friends in your 20s out of school A REAL one

also might turn to make internet friends if TS doesn't work out idk but I'll keep trying???