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should i get back w my ex
pls dont bash me for asking ts on here i gen have nowhere else to ask UMM ive kinda made a list of pros and cons of getting back?!?!? bear w me for now Gulps PROS: I miss her TERRIBLY SO!!! / we stayed as friends up until now so i dont rly harbor any hard feelings towards her...maybe... / the only reason we broke up wzs bc she was afraid of getting found out (wlw couple in a conservative country?? how fun.) / i miss my girl CONS: shes leaving for France in like a few months for her studies...not sure how immune i am to long distance / she only came back after i cut contact for a month or so?!? it took me leaving for her to move Sigh / no mention of her not upping and leaving again?? if anything im the one who'll get jumped if we're found out but she seems to avoid that topic... I could write more but just asking for help on here is embarrassing enough for me UGHGH CUT ME SOME SLACK PLEASE JUST GIVE ADVICE
if you're online asking whether or not to get back together then you have reservations about the relationship. I think you already have your answer and you're just looking for validation in that answer.
Bear in mind that an ex is an ex for a reason. 1 reply
Girl no, if you can't really handle long distance relationship then it's not gonna be good for you and her. I understand wanting to get back with someone but you have to let go. That's the thing about queer relationships, if the person isn't ready to be really out then we can't force them. It's for their own safety but I do hope one day she can be ...... reply
This is actually the least irritating “should I get back with my ex” I’ve ever heard, congrats! But imma say no still… just because if she’s not ready for that risk then you don’t wanna push her into something she might regret :( reply
You said you were still friends with her but you miss her (i'm going to assume in a romantic way since you didn't mention asexuality), but that safety was an issue. I think that you should prioritize that safety to a point, you both clearly liked each other but is it worth it if you both end up in pain? I think you could definitely find a median wh...... reply
thank u to everybody who replied️️ for context: shes the one asking me to get back so rest assured im not some asshole planning on forcing her back into an unsafe rs im also not built at all for long distance rs so i lowk have my answer reply
