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i always get told to be quieter in public
like i always get told to be quieter cause its embarrassing that im talking but im just a girl who left the nest after being suppressed like ik if im being too loud i always match my voice to the suroundings but it just hurts me that people think i should be embarrassed just for expressing myself but also like i showed my tired face today after told to be quieter because a was talking about a design flaw of a calendar but i also just think that i should say smthing back but its kinda hard yo do that because i dont want to hurt or cause misunderstanding with others cause i dwell on it
i think to be "quieter" is a comment on ur decibels btw, not ur personality. u can always keep ur enthusiasm while lowering the projection. nd instead of waiting for someone to shush u (which feels like a reprimand), u can occasionally ask ur friends, "am i being a bit loud? *say ur reason why*" or js say that ure excited about it bc in that way, i...... reply
