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the average fujoshi pipeline
or fudanshi. Or fujin. whatever
reading yaoi for a year: wow reading yaoi is so fun!! the seme and uke are so cute together!!!
reading yaoi for 2+ years: the word yaoi is FETISHIZING you should KILL YOURSELF if you read (problematic yaoislop). stop GLORIFYING , ROMANTICIZING, FETISHIZING (spins the roulette wheel) HETERONORMATIVE dynamics. ONLY ever ever read FLUFFY, NON PROBLEMATIC BL. if you still use seme and uke YOU ARE A GAY FETISHIST .
reading yaoi for 7+ years: wow reading yaoi is so fun!!! the seme and uke are so cute together!!!
the great fujoshi silencing was crazy oh my gawd .... in 2021 if you said the word yaoi instead of bl you have to apologize to your ancestors and commit seppuku for ur sins 2 reply
I remember I saw a pinterest post that said "bl" is fetishizing so everyone should switch to mlm and wlw so I said why bl is literally boys love what's so "fetishizing" about it and that was the moment I was called the most slurs and the most people asked me to kms (in the most creative ways) that I honestly felt like I was being taken to jail with...... 1 reply
Am I the only one that didn't go through this
I mostly stayed out of fandoms or comments in general when i was younger, so i just read in peace without minding too much about what other people thought. But as I grew up and now am an adult i became a bit more critical and less tolerable of what I read. Especially in the current political climate ...... 3 reply
I think being Incapable of engaging with what you read critically and on a deeper level is a sign of mental regression and weakness. Idk how to word it well but the shallowness of people's morality often comes to light when you look at the media they consume and how they interact with it, especially when they know that media is harmful. This is fru...... reply
god forbid i like to read yaoi with cute twink bottom and some rando new gen fujoshi calls me misogynist for liking heteronormative stuffs. if you think being cute and petite is a woman's trait thats on you. 2 reply
LMAOOOOO reminds me of my teenage years help, I was so strict with what fiction I consume that I be telling my friends that I dislike their ships because it's toxic and I wouldn't even talk to them (it's not even a toxic trope, the guy is just a playboy trope)
Policing them until one got tired and revealed she actually does like those stuff and tol...... 1 reply
This legit happened to me. My user id is proof of that... I used to avoid taboo or just dark themes in general. After being an adult ofcourse it changes a lot of perspectives and you understand it is just fictional, nothing to do with real-life if you don't condone it. Though I never harmed, cyberbullied or hated anyone in those half puritan years...... reply
My biggest grip with the 2+ year yaoi readers is that they like to frame it like it's some massive critical thinking trick to prove that they think more maturely.
These people are genuinely trying to intellectualize the steaming pile of crap they read into something about "critical thinking". If you care this much about critical thinking, go read ...... 1 reply