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i need some advice+this is a rant
THIS GUY, a friend of mine, hes very sweet and nice and lives in another area where im gonna move, so basically he talks about us meeting and it leading up to us kissing and like flirting and all, i dont mind that its whatever but, i feel like hes just flirting with me to maybe be able to kiss me?? idk and once i asked him if he does, he said no but if i feel that way then he cant do anything and apparently like its talking to a wall cause he explained that he likes me?? and started telling me its not a big deal that i just do this to protect myself and its not that serious as i make it to be. I WANT yall to listen to my side alr, i want to kiss or have sex only with someone im close to OBVIOUSLY, either my boyfriend or husband, and he agreed with me but he still told me in a very nice way that i was taking it all too seriously and its not that big of a deal and honestly idk what he wants from me? does he like me? does he just want to makeout with me or does he want a relationship (also ive never dated before so i dont wanna be taken advantage of and im pretty naive when it comes to these topics). WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN TO ME WTF STOP I HATE MEN YOU GUYS ARE SO EVIL I WISH I WAS A LESBIAN OMG PLEASE WTF
This guy will “it’s not a big deal” you off of a cliff, I’m serious. Please please do not under any circumstances get in a relationship with this guy, def don’t sleep with him either and if you have, stop it asap. This guy may sound convincing because he can talk to you irl but this guy is objectively extremely weird and I’m legitimatel...... reply
GUYS ALSO HES SO COCKY, BEEN AROUND WITH A BUNCH OF GIRLS, hes done some shit a few years back? also lwk a redflag he just calls me hot and i get it sweet but anything else??? and hes always like baby this that, but hes not told me if he genuinely likes me till date, and he just texted me. i know this is not the place to say all ths but i dont have...... 2 reply
Girl don't play into a man who can't keep it straight. If they keep dancing around your pants and playing nice and vague they don't commit.
If he's part of the net of friends redirect advances, avoid 1on1 meetups, if you can't be straightforward disengage in topics, calls, texts, etc. Highly suggest to be straightforward about rejecting flirting or...... 1 reply
I feel like he is definitely a "nice" guy. He'll be like all sweet and shit but once you refuse , he'll first convince you (and i think thats what he all 'its not serious' speech about) that its just two close friends playing nothing weird about touching or talking, gaslight you into thinking that maybe you're taking it too serious. And if once aga...... reply
It sounds like he's kinda trying to use you, because you're his friend, he thinks you're convenient for what he wants, and he doesn't think you'd call him out on it becuz in previous conversations he probably assumed you liked him and thought he could use that to his advantage. Not to mention the fact you've never dated anyone so he might be trying...... reply
obviously idk ur exact situation, but you should probably be cautious of meeting with him in the future...
if a guy friend is insinuating ANYTHING sexual before actually making his romantic feelings explicitly clear to you (and public), then he probably just wants to fuck or string you along for validation.
just my opinion tho! if you feel like t...... reply
