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New friendships
Yall how tf do you actually befriend new people in uni or outside like i only have 2 friends and dont get me wrong they are amazing the thing is they have their own friends outside of uni i have only one bsf but she also have other friends so i just feel alone you know like i wanna be like them having other friends rather than just having them only p.s I'm a first year student
if you're already few months in, chances are people already form groups. your best bet is look for people who sits alone in class and talk to them 1 reply
tbh, it's hard to actually befriend people in uni. but going to events, programs or organizations that fits your hobbies and interests works. the keyword is going to spaces that you enjoy or are willing to take time and effort. it will take a few big efforts but it's the maintaining that friend that's hard, cuz it is college and college is hell— ...... 1 reply
This might seem weird (or borderline creepy) but as for me, I usually observe my surroundings first. This is my general way of making friends, be it in class, events, internship, etc. I try to feel people out, like lowkey observing everyone, if they have the same hobbies as me, their humors, personalities and such, and when we are assigned or group...... 2 reply
i don't really know,,,but with 1 or 2 friends are enough....my uni friends just 2 friends from college that share the same major and 1 roommate with same major...and more than that will become uni drama 1 reply
