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For girlies with bfs how did you tell them you read bl
I’ve been a weird kid who got too much freedom on the internet and stumbled across bl at a very young age.. it’s not that hard of a topic to talk to my friends who are girls although only a very very few people know. I read lot of gay smut, fanfictions and follow gay ship artists online but irl I’m not the weird kiddo and I don’t spill about me reading hardcore smut when I get home. Although, I thought my bf knew me the best cause I had been open about my other weird interests and had no problems with it so when he mentioned it, I casually said yeah I read bl but he said “ew” and my heart dropped so I lied about saying I only read fluffs and no hardcore.
How do I soft launch to my bf that his gf is into reading about two dudes fuvking eachother. Or do I just hide it for the whole relationship..
We were at school and she was scrolling through her phone. I was sitting right next to her when I caught a glimpse of a reading app one that's known for having a lot of BL. I just asked, 'Oh, you have that app?' and she immediately started yapping about it. To test the waters, I asked if she knew a certain manhwa title without mentioning the genre....... reply
My boyfriend also reads BL and smuts so he was never shocked about me reading them !
But tbh I don’t really know what you can do to make him not judge you (I’m not good at giving advice).. is he homophobic ??? because it kinda sounds like it.
it’s not like you reading BL is gonna affect any aspect of your relationship, especially since you...... reply
Not sure if being older and married counts, but my hubby and I don’t really care about each other’s smut consumption. Hubby is among the many, many guys who are perfectly happy to watch a couple of hot women together, so he understands it’s perfectly natural for women to feel the same about two hot men. Plus, he’s happy to reap the benefi...... 1 reply
LOL, me and my bf shop Yaoi mangas together he teases me sometimes about it but idk he never was weirded out by it. We knew each other for years i honestly dont even remember when i shared my interests with him. Sometimes when i dont answer he just casually texts me “you read yaoi right now?”
So yeah no matter what your interests are if he’s...... 1 reply
I am a lesbian and have a gf, we both like yaoi and talk ab it a lot, i couldnt really image not talking ab such a big part of me and one of my main interest with my partner, but IF she didnt like it i would be fine with that since loosing a person like her would be worse than death, imo u may be over reacting, but at the said time it would be be...... 2 reply
Girl, you're only in relationship, not destined to be together forever marriage type shit. It's okay if he doesn't want yaoi, you can't force them to someone. You also don't have to drop it for the sake of someone. Just know you both have different preferences, keep open mind and just talk how usually u talk. reply
lol I read hella BL (obviously) and a lot of it’s hardcore. My gf is a lesbian with every fiber of her being and honestly finds men pretty gross so when I told her 4 years ago (super early into our relationship) she was sooooo weirded out and since then she gets SUPER icked anytime she catches me reading it around her or talking about it and basi...... reply
